The Best Of Mom and Dad

Ah, a New Year is almost here and you know what that means.  It’s time for the media (and blogging) world to inundate society with the 2011 “Best Of…” lists.  The best viral videos.  The best stump speech.  The best crying on television.  And how can we end 2011 without the best of Justin Bieber?

So you will have to forgive me because I, too, am going to give you a “Best Of” blog post today.  But wait! This is not a typical “Best Of…” and because I can’t name a single best of Bieber moment, I will have to tell you what I like best about my parents.  Seriously.  My Mom and Dad are pretty wonderful folks and here’s why I think so.

First, my mom.  She is amazing because she does not act her age (and I don’t mean this in a bad way).  My mom has a lot of energy.  Once when I was a teenager, my mom told me that she loved running – that it had been one of her favorite things to do as a child.  Years later, on a visit home from college, I discovered that my mom was running three or more miles a day.  At that time I could not run thirty feet, much less three miles.  In 2006, my mom and I ran a half marathon together and, next March, we will run together again in a full marathon.  I don’t know if I inherited her energy level, but she set the right example for me to follow.

Second, my dad.  When I was a child living in a rural town in Tennessee, my father frequently traveled on business.  Sometimes he would take me with him.  Quite often the business trips were extended so that we could visit The Statue of Liberty, Niagara Falls, The Laura Ingalls Wilder Home in Mansfield, Missouri (I was a huge Little House fan), and Tiger Stadium in Detroit.

It was in Detroit, at age ten, where I saw Reggie Jackson hit a triple as the Oakland A’s were playing the Tigers.  After the game, Dad and I returned to our car.  We had parked on a side road along with other people who were attending the game.  Once inside the car, we discovered that someone’s poor parking job had barricaded many cars that were trying to leave.

Apparently people in Detroit have no problem taking matters into their own hands.  My Dad and I sat in awe as five large men physically moved the offending vehicle so that all could leave the parking area.  As we sat and stared at this exhibit of Motown strength, my dad said in a calm voice, “Grace, why don’t you go ahead and lock your door.”  It was trips like this one, and so many others with my father that gave me real world experiences outside of my small town home.

That’s all.  Not so bad, was it?

And for the photo portion of my post, I found some pictures from 2004.

This is my mom hiking in Virginia on the Appalachian Trail.  She is with my dog, Pete.  I had him for thirteen great years.

This is my dad with his father (who turned 92 this month) in Washington, DC standing in front of the World War II Memorial.

Like father, like son.

Enjoy 2012!

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Holidays

Nothing says, “Merry Christmas” like Solo Cups and rubber chickens on a billiard table.

I took this picture in my aunt’s basement when we visited her in Tennessee last week.  This is where the kids played and had a terrific time.  There are now nine great-grandchildren and they were all there to celebrate the holidays and their great-grandfather’s ninety-second birthday.

Thanks to my Aunt Becky and Uncle Paul – they do a wonderful job hosting the December gathering every year.

One more thing: here is a link to a story about HOPE Ornaments. A friend of one of my best friends plans to deliver 7,000 ornaments to patients who are in the hospital this Christmas.  Awesome.

 

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The Tree

It’s up!  A Fraser Fir, and for the first time in two years, our tree is actually alive and drinking water.

I took this one picture during the decorating.

It’s the inevitable entanglement of lights.  No matter how neatly I think I put away Christmas decorations….

As each year passes, I have more and more “help” decorating the tree.  By the end of the first hour of tree decorating, we had our first casualty.  A red ball shattered.  The next morning we lost a green one in the kitchen as a certain thee-year-old decided to show me that the hook was broken.

Perhaps the moral of this little story is that no matter how much unsolicited help I receive from my kids, they always surprise me with little things that make me laugh … or stop and take a picture.

I guess tree ornaments are not just for the tree anymore.

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Light ‘Em Up

I’m not a big holiday person.  I don’t care for shopping.  I am horrible at decorating and I think most Christmas music is awful.  I guess in many ways that makes me a bit of a Grinch.  BUT there is one thing I could do all year long and that is look at holiday lights.

Yep, I love driving the kids around and checking out the tacky and tastefully illuminated houses in our area.  Really, there isn’t anything much better this time of year than giving the kids early baths, putting them in pajamas and letting them snuggle in their car seats with blankets while we cruise through the neighborhoods.  Swinging by Starbucks for a gingerbread latte is a rare treat, but it adds to the festivity so I highly recommend it.

Since I don’t take pictures and drive, at least not that I am willing to admit in this public forum, I don’t have any photos of decked out homes to show you.  But I do have two pictures from Lewis Ginter Botanical Garden (they put on an awesome light show as well) that were taken during a recent visit there with Heidi.

Keep in mind that she is three and loves pink.

So who could blame her for touching the lights?

 

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Thankful For….

Ah yes, this is the blog post that I was supposed to write BEFORE Thanksgiving.  But that didn’t happen.  So here is a nontraditional “thankful for” post, just a wee bit late.

1. I am thankful for the fact that I hate using the drive-thru window at fast food restaurants. Yes, you read that correctly, I detest drive-thrus.  In fact I never used the drive-thru until I had kids who could eat chicken nuggets.  I now use the drive-thru in times of desperation (read: three-year-old is starving in the back seat and I need food to quiet The Beast).

2. I am (somewhat) thankful for having a stress fracture in my foot earlier this year.  Why appreciate an injury that left me in an air cast for the better part of six months?  Because I learned to appreciate every step of every mile I am now able to run.

3.  I am thankful for bad days.  It makes the good ones seem that much better.

4. I am thankful that taking books away from my children is punishment for them.  In other words, I am amazed and grateful that both of my daughters like to read/look at books.  It is their favorite thing to do.

5. I am thankful for flexibility.  This year my family did something a bit nontraditional for Thanksgiving: we hiked in the Blue Ridge Mountains.  Of course Mom being a good mom, provided my brother and me with some delicious turkey sandwiches that we ate on the trail.

Here are the pictures!

It was a bright sunny day. (I did not even the notice the airplanes above the mountains until I got home and downloaded the pictures).

One of the first things we saw was this buck.

Eating Thanksgiving lunch on the trail.

I brought dessert: homemade pumpkin chip muffins. Yum.

The hike was pretty much down a mountain and then back up but there was one nice stream to cross.

And another shot of the mountain range.

It was a great hike with my family!

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